T.J. and I are up to our elbows in planning our wedding.  We’ve finally gotten the date, the minister, and picked out readings and such.  I’ll pick up the invitations after work tomorrow, we’ll get  them printed and out here shortly, though most folks already know when it is.

We’re getting married February 23rd, here at our home in Oklahoma.  I’ve faced the reality that my son might not be here, because my mother’s attorney has advised her not to bring him to visit me until after our court date.  My mother’s asked me to postpone the wedding, but after some hard thought, and a quick check of the PA laws on co-habitation, we’ve decided not to do so.

His sister is taking care of the flower girl’s dress, I’ll be reimbursing her for the costs.  It’s important to me to pay for that.  We still need to find T.J.’s dress pants and such, plus a tie and such for our nephew.  Might need to find a tie for T.J. if he decides  not to wear the silver one he already has.

Later today, his mom and I are sitting down and going over menu choices and making a list of what all we need to do yet.  Plus, we have lots of cleaning to do, our room is horrible, so today’s a busy, busy day.