Yes, I know, I should really come back more often.  A lot of things have been going on, mainly stuff with my mother, like the nasty custody battle we’ve been in since May.

But I don’t really want to get into that, it’s depressing and upsetting, especially since I won’t even get to see my son for Christmas.

T.J. and I are doing well.  We’re getting married either February 23rd or March 1st, depending on which is easier to schedule with the justice of the peace.  I got my dress, from Lane Bryant, on sale!  So that’s totally awesome.  We’re going to have his nephew and niece with us for Christmas, mainly because we had to move in with his parents, in Muskogee, Oklahoma, to save money.  Stupid custody battle.

But for the most part, I’m ok with us living with his parents.  I love his family, they’ve been awesome to me.  I just wish my son could be here with us.

Both of us are working for the WalMart here in town, and as soon as the new year starts, I’ll start looking for something better, but for now, this is paying the bills, and I do have insurance and stuff through them now.  I will never underestimate how horrible people can be during the holidays ever again though.  Seriously, that old bumper sticker is true- “I know there’s a Hell, I work in Retail”.  Just now it should read – “I know there’s a Hell, I work for Wal-Mart.”